what should i tell my boss?
i am the only employee at a gas bar and variety store. the owner (my boss) likes to hug me, kiss me on the cheek and coment on my physical apperance.
i am a very friendly person in general. in uncomefortable sitchuations i smile and try to be happy to cover up that i am not comefortable with what is going on.
i dont know what to say to my boss about his friendly hugs that are crossing my comefort zone. i dont want to offend him or get myself fired.
it has come down to me looking for another job.
Answers (1)
It is important that you make it clear to your boss that you are uncomfortable with any physical contact or comments regarding your physical appearance. If his behavior is innocent he should not mind your expressing your feelings about this.
If your employer were to discharge you for simply notifying him that you do not feel comfortable with physical contact or inappropriate comments, the discharge could be considered unlawful retaliation.
I would recommend that you explain your feelings, letting him know it is not your intention to offend him, that you value your job and you are simply more comfortable without the touching etc. If any retaliatory action is taken against you, contact an employment lawyer.
Good luck. I hope it works out for you.
posted by Patricia Pastor | Aug 14, 2011 2:11 PM [EST]
If your employer were to discharge you for simply notifying him that you do not feel comfortable with physical contact or inappropriate comments, the discharge could be considered unlawful retaliation.
I would recommend that you explain your feelings, letting him know it is not your intention to offend him, that you value your job and you are simply more comfortable without the touching etc. If any retaliatory action is taken against you, contact an employment lawyer.
Good luck. I hope it works out for you.
posted by Patricia Pastor | Aug 14, 2011 2:11 PM [EST]
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